Iningi labantu licabanga ukuthi ukuthandana nowesifazane we-BDSM kuyinkimbinkimbi. Iqiniso liwukuthi ikakhulukazi ukuthandana nje, ngezingubo ezingcono kanye nesakhiwo samandla esicacile. Ingxenye eyinkimbinkimbi akuyona indlela yokuphila - ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izingxenye zaseLondon ezifanelana nazo nokuthi yiziphi ezingazifanelani nazo.
ILondon inesimo se-BDSM esibucayi. Akuyona inguqulo ehlanjululwe kakhulu oyithola emadolobheni esifundazwe, kodwa indawo ephelele yamakilabhu, izindawo zamalungu azimele, izindawo zokudlela ezingacwayizisi amehlo, kanye nezindawo ezihlala abantu abaziphatha ngendlela engavamile kusukela ngawo-1960 ngaphandle kokuzikhathaza ngakho. Ukuthandana nomphelezeli we-BDSM kuleli dolobha kusho ukufunda ukufunda leyo ndawo ngokushesha.
Lokho okubhalisela kona ngempela
Umphelezeli we-BDSM unguchwepheshe. Unesimiso, isisekelo samakhasimende, imingcele echazwe ngokucacile kunaleyo abantu abaningi kunoma yimuphi omunye umkhakha abayenzayo, kanye nobuhle abuthatha ngokungathi sína. Mude, umhlophe, uvuthiwe Umphelezeli we-BDSM Uzoya esidlweni sakusihlwa eMount Street uchithe isikhathi esiningi ecabanga ngalokho akugqokayo kunanoma ubani omunye endaweni yokudlela. Lokho akusikho ukuzikhukhumeza. Kuyindlela yokuziphatha yobungcweti esetshenziswa kusihlwa somuntu siqu.
Indlela yokuphila ayimi lapho usuku lokusebenza luphela. Ukuguquguquka kuyavumelana - igunya, isethulo esihleliwe, ukulindela ukuthi ubusuku buzosebenza ngokwemigomo yakhe. Uma lokho kungeyona into ongasebenza nayo, usebudlelwaneni obungalungile. Uma kunjalo, iLondon ikunikeza isethi yezindawo ezingavamile ongasebenza nazo.
Izindawo azithandayo
IMayfair kuqala. IShepherd Market, phakathi kweCurzon Street nePiccadilly, yilapho okufanele uqale khona. Kwakuyisifunda saseMayfair esinokukhanya okubomvu kuze kube muva nje futhi kwagcina isimo. IKitty Fisher's eseCoventry Street, ibha yaseConnaught eCarlos Place, 5 Hertford Street uma unobulungu - lawa amakamelo lapho umphelezeli weBDSM ogqoke izicathulo eziphakeme ethola khona insizakalo enhle futhi akukho ukuphawula.
IMarylebone ithule kakhulu. ULita ePaddington Street ukuze badle isidlo sakusihlwa – ukukhanya okufudumele okunezinkanyezi zeMichelin, amatafula aqhelelene ngokwanele ukuze kuxoxwe ngasese. Imigwaqo ezungeze iMarylebone High Street ngemva kuka-9pm ayinalutho ngokwanele ukuthi ukuhamba phakathi kwezindawo kunekhwalithi yayo.
I-Chelsea yilapho izakhiwo zizuza khona. I-Cheyne Hamba nge-Thames, i-Albert Bridge ikhanya ebusuku, i-Elystan Street ukuze udle isidlo sakusihlwa. I-dominatrix ende egqoke i-catsuit nezithende eRoyal Hospital Road ngo-10pm, ngokomlando we-Chelsea, ayimangalisi nhlobo. Idolobha lasungula izinhlangano eziningana zemfashini ezashaqisa wonke umuntu futhi zabhalisa lapha njengoLwesibili.
I-Bayswater iyindlela ewusizo. Amahhotela amaningi kunanoma yikuphi eLondon, ukujikeleza okuhlala njalo kwabantu ongabazi, akekho onaka. I-Leinster Gardens, isidlo sakusihlwa eChez Patrick eQueensway, ukuhamba ngomsele ukuya eLittle Venice ngemva kwalokho. u-dominatrix escort ephethe imaski yobuso esandleni sakhe endleleni yokudonsa iBlomfield Road ngo-9pm, ubheka isikebhe esincane esidlulayo, okungenani.
I-Paddington ne-Baker Street zikunikeza uphahla kanye nomsele ndawonye. I-CÉ LA VI esitezi se-17 se-1 Paddington Square – Ukudla kwe-Pan-Asia, ama-cocktail e-pisco. Ungabona i-Battersea kanye ne-Shard etafuleni lakho. Bese wehla uye endleleni yokudonsa bese ubheka entshonalanga ngase-Little Venice. I-Frontline Club e-Norfolk Place ukuze uthole isiphuzo esiphuze kakhulu, izinkuni ezimnyama, uhlu lwewayini olujulile, isixuku esibonwe ngokwanele emhlabeni ukuthola i-BDSM ekhaphethi engajabulisi nhlobo ukuyibuka.
Lapho eya khona uma kungelona usuku lokuqomisana
Indawo ye-BDSM engathi sína idlula ezindaweni ezimbalwa ezisunguliwe. I-Torture Garden iyindawo eyaziwa kakhulu - imicimbi yanyanga zonke, ikhodi yokugqoka eqinile, ebilokhu isebenza kusukela ngo-1990. I-Club Pedestal iqhuba ubusuku obuqondene nabesifazane, ihlelekile futhi ihlolwe. Ukuvukela eSteelyard eduze neLondon Bridge kukhulu, kumnyama, futhi kuthatha ikhodi yokugqoka ngokungathi sína.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lesi sigameko sisebenza ngemicimbi yezindlu ezimenyiwe kuphela kanye nezindawo ezizimele kulo lonke elaseCentral London. Umphelezeli we-BDSM uzokwazi lokhu. Cishe ngeke ukwazi, kuze kube yilapho enquma ukuthi kufanele ukwenze.
Iqiniso lokuphuma ndawonye
Umbuzo abantu abaningi abanawo ukuthi umuntu ohamba naye e-BDSM wamukelwa kanjani ezindaweni zokudlela ezivamile nasemabhaweni. Ezindaweni ezingenhla, impendulo iwumsebenzi futhi ngaphandle kwengozi. I-Elystan Street eChelsea ayiphenduli lutho. Ibha yaseConnaught igcina imikhuba emihle kakhulu ngakho konke. I-Prince Alfred eseFormosa Street inezikrini ze-Victorian snob ezivala ibha zibe yizindawo zangasese futhi zingabuzi mibuzo.
Okungasebenzeki kunomsindo, inkampani, noma ukubuka izivakashi. Indawo yokudlela engalungile yenza ubusuku bube ngengubo kunokuthi umuntu ayigqoke.
Yini eshintshayo nokuthi yini engashintshiyo
Ukuqomisana nomuntu ohamba naye e-BDSM eLondon kumane nje kuwukuqomisana eLondon. Lokhu kucacile kunalokho okwenziwa yiningi lobudlelwano. Izindawo, uma usuzazi ukuthi yiziphi okufanele uzisebenzise, zinhle ngempela.
Ubeka ijubane. Ukhetha itafula. Uhamba phambili kuCheyne Walk kanye nendlela yokudonsa iBlomfield Road kanye naseMount Street ebusuku. Okunye ukwazi nje ukuthi iyiphi ikhodi yeposi okufanele ubhukhe kuyo indawo yokudlela.
Kuhle ukuthatha umphelezeli we-BDSM aye naye lapho eyobonana khona ezindaweni azithandayo. Ukuya kwakhe kungcono – unawo wonke amathoyizi.
Uma uyithandile le ndatshana, kungenzeka ukuthi uzokujabulela ukufunda ngayo yokukhulekela.