Uma ubhekene namacala ezidakamizwa zobugebengu, ungalivumi ngokuzenzakalelayo icala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibuphi ubufakazi ocabanga ukuthi bunobufakazi obumelene nawe, ungafaki ubufakazi becala ngaphandle uma kuyilokho ummeli wakho athi kufanele ukwenze (yize lokho kungeke kwenzeke).
Izindleko zezidakamizwa zingabandakanya:
- Ukushushumbiswa kwezidakamizwa
- Ukukhiqiza
- Ukuba nezinto, njenge-cocaine, i-heroin, i-methamphetamine, insangu
- Ukuba nenhloso yokubhekana
- Ukuba nezidakamizwa
- Ukuthengisa izidakamizwa
Uma ubhekene nanoma yimaphi kulawa (noma amanye) amacala ezidakamizwa, cishe ufuna ukuthi yonke into iphele ngokushesha, kodwa yingakho ukuvuma icala kuzosebenza ngokumelene nawe.
1. Amacala akho angase achithwe ngokuphelele
Kwezinye izimo, ngisho amacala ezidakamizwa angachithwa. Uma ubufakazi obumelene nawe buqoqwe ngokungekho emthethweni, angeke busetshenziswe phambi kwakho enkantolo. Uma lokho kusebenza ecaleni lakho, futhi ulivuma icala, uzogcina unesigwebo obungasigwema ngenye indlela.
Ngisho noma ubufakazi butholakale ngokungemthetho, usamdinga ummeli ukuze akuvikele futhi amacala akho esulwe. Ummeli wakho uzodinga ukufakazela ijaji ukuthi ubufakazi abutholakalanga ngokusemthethweni, futhi leyo akuyona into ongayenza uwedwa.
2. Ukuvuma icala kuqeda ukufinyelela esivumelwaneni
Isicelo osifakayo asikho isidingo sokuthi sihlobane neqiniso. Isibonelo, awusho ngobuchwepheshe ukuthi, “Ngimsulwa kukho konke ukwenza okubi” ngokuphika ukuthi awunacala ngenkathi wenze ubugebengu. Uma ubhekene namacala ezidakamizwa, ungazami “ukuthatha indlela ephakeme yokuziphatha” ngokuvuma icala, ucabanga ukuthi umbuso uzokunqamula ikhefu ngenxa yokwethembeka. Lokho ngeke kwenzeke. Ukuphela kwekhefu oyoke ulithole elokuxoxisana, futhi awukwazi ukuthola isivumelwano sokuvuma icala uma uvuma icala. Ngokuvuma icala, usethubeni elihle lokuthola izigwebo eziphezulu ezivumelekile mayelana nesikhathi sasejele nenhlawulo.
Uma uphika ukuthi awunacala, maningi amathuba okuthi unikezwe isivumelwano. Isibonelo, ungase ucelwe ukuthi uvume icala elincane ukuze uhoxise icala elibi kakhulu. Akuvamile ukuthi abantu bavume icala ukuze bagweme ukugwetshwa. Lokhu kubalulekile ngoba ukugwetshwa kwezidakamizwa kunemiphumela emibi ezokulandela impilo yakho yonke. Ngokwesibonelo, kukhona a ukuvinjelwa kombuso kosizo lokudla kanye nezinzuzo zemali kunoma ubani olahlwe yicala lezidakamizwa. Amazwe angakwazi ukukususa ngokuzimela ukuvinjelwa, kodwa kuphuma ekuboneni kwawo.
Ngokufanayo, njengesigebengu esilahlwe yicala, uzolahlekelwa ilungelo lokuvota, futhi kuye ngesimo sakho, ungase ungaphinde uthole amalungelo akho ngisho nangemva kokusebenzela isikhathi sakho. Abaphathi abaningi bezakhiwo ngeke baqashe izigebengu, futhi abanye abaqashi ngeke baqashe izigebengu, naphezu kwalokho. okungekho emthethweni ukucwasa ngokumelene nomuntu ngokuba nerekhodi. Uma uvuma icala lezidakamizwa, impilo yakho izoba nzima ngokuzenzakalela uma ubuyela emphakathini.
3. Isikhathi esiningi, izivumelwano zokunxeshezelwa zifunwa yibo bonke abathintekayo
Isivumelwano sokunxeshezelwa sizogwema ukuqulwa kwecala elibizayo, elithatha isikhathi eside, yingakho wonke umuntu othintekayo - okuhlanganisa ijaji nomshushisi - ngokuvamile ekhetha ukunikeza uhlobo oluthile lwesivumelwano. Izinkantolo zihlala zigcwele amacala, futhi lapho amacala engaxazululwa ngesivumelwano sokuvuma icala, kunciphisa ubunzima enkantolo. Kusebenzela wonke umuntu, ikakhulukazi njengoba ukuqulwa kwecala kungase kungabonakali.
4. Ukuvuma icala kungase kukuqinisekise isigwebo esiphezulu
Ngisho noma unganikezwa ithuba lokuvuma icala elincane, usengagwema izijeziso ezinzima uma ungalivumi icala. Kuye ngemininingwane yecala lakho, ukuvuma icala kungaba yindlela esheshayo yokukhishwa kwesigwebo esiphezulu esivunyelwe umthetho.
Izinkantolo azibophezelekile ukuthi zehlise isigwebo uma uvuma icala. Nakuba, ngezinye izikhathi izinkantolo ziba mnene kulabo abaqala ngqa ukuphula umthetho uma amacala ezidakamizwa ababhekene nawo engenzima kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, uma ungumoni ophindelelayo, noma kunezimo ezinzima ezihilelekile ecaleni lakho, ungase ungabi nayo inhlanhla.
5. Ukuvuma icala kuqeda ilungelo lakho lokuqulwa kwecala
Unelungelo elingokomthetho lokuqulwa kwecala ngamajaji, futhi ukuvuma icala kuzokweqa ukuqulwa kwecala futhi isigwebo sakho sizokhishwa ijaji. Lokhu akukona ngempela ukuthi uchwepheshe noma umkhohlisi, njengoba kunethuba lokuthi ijaji lamajaji ungatholwa ungenacala. Kodwa-ke, kunethuba lokuthi uzotholwa unecala, futhi izigwebo zecala zivame ukuba njalo phakathi kwezikhathi ezintathu neziyi-10 ngaphezulu kunezigwebo zokugwetshwa ngecala elifanayo.
Ummeli wakho wazi kangcono
Amacala ezidakamizwa abucayi, yingakho udinga ukulalela ummeli wakho futhi uthathe izeluleko zabo. Ummeli wakho uyazi ukuthi yini ekulungele kakhulu ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe ngamacala ahlobene nezidakamizwa ezifanayo. Lalela izeluleko zabo ukuze uthole umphumela ongcono kakhulu wecala lakho.