Ke komo nei ʻoe i kahi hoʻopiʻi hōʻeha pilikino? Ua waiho mua paha ʻoe, a i ʻole ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kahi hoʻopiʻi? Inā ʻoe e alualu i kekahi no kou ʻeha, eia ka mea e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike.
1. Hiki i nā ʻano ʻeha like ʻole ke kūpono no ka hoʻopiʻi ʻeha pilikino
Hiki i kekahi loio ke hoʻoholo inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hihia, akā hiki ke maopopo i kekahi mau kūlana. No ka laʻana, ʻike paha ʻoe ʻo ka paheʻe a me ka hāʻule ʻana e alakaʻi pinepine i nā hoʻopiʻi, akā aia nā ʻano ʻeha like ʻole e hiki ke kūpono, e like me:
- Kaʻa kaʻa pōʻino
- Nā pōʻino kūkulu hale
- Nā hihia huahana hemahema
- Nahu ʻīlio
- Nā hihia pili i ke keʻena
Ke ʻeha ʻia ma muli o ka mālama ʻole ʻana o kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopiʻi. ʻO ka lanakila a ʻaʻole paha e pili ana i kou kūlana pilikino, kāu loio, a me nā kānāwai pili. No ka laʻana, ma kekahi mau mokuʻāina, aia ka hoʻohālikelike hoʻohālikelike, kahi e hōʻemi ai i kāu uku e pili ana i ke ʻano o kāu hāʻawi hewa ʻana i ka ulia pōpilikia.
ʻAʻohe mea i ʻeha ʻia ʻoe, inā manaʻo ʻoe na kekahi mea ʻē aʻe a ua loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pōʻino, e hoʻopili koke i kahi loio.
2. Pono ʻoe i ke kānāwai
Inā ua ʻeha ʻoe, mai hoʻopiʻi iā ʻoe iho. ʻElua kumu nui e hoʻolimalima i kahi loio hōʻeha pilikino e mālama i kāu hihia:
- E lilo ana ʻoe i mea kaumaha a nalowale paha kāu hihia ma ka hōʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho
- Loaʻa pinepine nā loio i nā hoʻoholo nui no kā lākou mea kūʻai
Inā 'a'ole 'oe i 'ike i ka loio, 'a'ole 'oe makemake e hakakā me kekahi hui 'inikua ma ka 'aha ho'okolokolo. ʻAʻole wale ʻoe e hoʻopiha ʻia me nā ʻenehana o ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana, akā pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā pū me kahi hui nona ka manaʻo nui e uku liʻiliʻi.
Ke hōʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he pro se litigant, e kū ana ʻoe i kahi kaua piʻi. ʻAʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kahi kamaʻāina pilikino, akā, ʻo kā lākou hui ʻinikua. Aia nā hui ʻinikua e loaʻa ka loaʻa kālā, a ua ʻike ʻia lākou he hāʻawi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa i loko a i waho o ka ʻaha. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kahi hui ʻinikua e uku iā ʻoe i ka uku kūpono ma waho o kahi hoʻopiʻi, ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa hou aku ma ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana iā lākou ke ʻole ʻoe e hana pū me kahi loio.
Loaʻa i nā loio hōʻeha pilikino nā mākau kūkākūkā maikaʻi loa, a ʻike lākou pehea e loaʻa ai nā hoʻoponopono kiʻekiʻe no kā lākou mea kūʻai. Loaʻa paha, ʻaʻole hele kāu hihia i ka hoʻokolokolo a hoʻoholo ʻia. ʻO kēia kahi e hoʻoikaika nui ai kāu loio e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka uku āu e pono ai.
Ua ʻike nō hoʻi nā loio i ke ʻano kaʻina hana o ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana, a he mea nui ia no ka mea ʻaʻole pono nā luna kānāwai e ʻoki iā ʻoe no ka hana hewa ʻana iā ʻoe iho. E mālama ʻia ʻoe i nā kūlana like a me nā koi e like me kekahi loio, a hiki i kekahi mau hewa ke uku iā ʻoe i kāu hihia.
3. Pono ʻoe e uku kālā
ʻAʻole maopopo ʻoe inā pono ʻoe e uku kālā no kou ʻeha? E noʻonoʻo ʻoe penei: Inā ʻaʻole nau kou hewa i hōʻeha ʻia, a ʻo ke kumu o kou hōʻeha ʻana no ka mālama ʻole ʻana a i ʻole ka nānā ʻole ʻana o kekahi, a laila ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kuleana āpau e hoʻopiʻi. Pono ʻoe i ke kālā no nā pila lāʻau lapaʻau a me nā uku i nalowale inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana.
E ʻōlelo ʻoe ua ʻeha ʻoe ma ka waiwai o kahi ʻoihana ma ka paheʻe ʻana i kahi hau ma waho pono o ka puka mua i ka hoʻoilo. He kuleana ko nā ʻoihana e mālama i nā wahi palekana a inā ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻoheheʻe a paʻakai paha i ke ala hele, ma ke kumumanaʻo, na lākou ke kuleana no nā pōʻino i loaʻa mai ko lākou mālama ʻole. Ma ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo, he hihia maikaʻi loa kēia kūlana.
Ma kēia kūlana, inā ʻeha ʻoe i kou kua a haki paha i ka iwi, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e uku no kāu mau pili olakino. ʻO ka maʻamau, ʻo ka waiho ʻana i kahi hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e loaʻa ai kahi ʻoihana e uku pono i nā koina olakino.
4. He kuleana paha kāu mea hana no nā hana a nā limahana ʻē aʻe
Inā ʻeha ʻoe ma ka hana ma muli o ka mālama ʻole ʻana o kekahi limahana, hiki i kāu mea hana ke kuleana ma ke kānāwai no kāu ulia. Ua kapa ʻia kēia ka lula "respondeat superior".. Aia kekahi mau laʻana o kēia:
- Hoʻopilikia kekahi limahana i nā lako palekana me ka manaʻo a ʻike paha i ka pōʻino a ʻaʻole hōʻike i ka luna. Lawe ʻoe a hoʻohana i kēlā mea hana palekana, a hāʻule ia, e hōʻeha ai i kou ʻeha.
- Hoʻohenehene kekahi hoa hana iā ʻoe, a hele hewa a hoʻopau i ka ʻeha.
Pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i ka mālama ʻole
ʻO ka mea hope akā ʻaʻole ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, ʻo ka mālama ʻole i ka puʻuwai o kēlā me kēia hihia hōʻeha pilikino. I mea e lanakila ai, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i kēlā ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe ua aie ia oe e malama ua uhaki ia hana, a o kou poino ka hopena o ia uhaki.